In To Die Like a Dog, I invite you on a journey that examines life, death, and everything in between through the lens of the profound bond we share with our animal companions. At the heart of this book lies the concept of a “good death”—a peaceful, compassionate end to life. In my veterinary practice, this often takes the form of euthanasia, a word that literally means “a good death.” Over the years, I have developed a ritualized approach to euthanasia, incorporating elements like soft lighting, poetry, and a calming atmosphere to ensure that the passing of an animal is as dignified and loving as possible. These moments are not just about ending suffering but honoring the life that was lived, celebrating the bond between human and animal, and providing a sacred space for a peaceful farewell.
But this book is not just about animals. It’s about how the lessons I’ve learned from providing a good death for pets translate into how we, as humans, approach life and death. The same principles of compassion, respect, and dignity apply to us. I’ve witnessed the emotional depth of saying goodbye to a beloved pet, and I’ve also experienced the pain of human loss. My own near-death experience after the bike accident has given me a unique perspective on mortality, teaching me that death is not something to fear, but something to prepare for with intention and grace. In the chapters ahead, we’ll explore the idea that living well and dying well are intertwined—one gives meaning to the other.
This book is structured to guide you through both the technical and emotional aspects of death in animals and humans. We will begin by exploring euthanasia in pets—what makes a “good death” and how the end of life can be handled with care, love, and compassion. From the delicate balance of palliative care to the deep emotional impact of losing a companion, these chapters offer insights drawn from my decades of experience as a veterinarian. I’ll also share personal stories, including the death of my grandmother and the recent reconnection with my family, highlighting how the lessons I’ve learned from animals carry over into human life and death.
Ultimately, this book is about living with purpose and dying with dignity. It’s about recognizing that death is not an ending, but a transition—whether it’s the death of a beloved pet or a loved one. Through the stories and reflections shared here, I hope to offer you a deeper understanding of how to approach both life and death with compassion, grace, and intention. Just as my bike ride brought me back to life, I hope this journey through the pages ahead will bring you a renewed sense of purpose, helping you to live more fully and prepare for the inevitable with courage and peace.
So, let’s ride together through the hills of life and death. Let’s learn from the animals who’ve taught us so much about love, loyalty, and letting go. And let’s discover, together, how to embrace the beauty of a good life and a good death.
I am so grateful for the help I have had so far in writing this book with Grace Harris as a book coach, and Interviews from Matin Hopp Founder of Pets in Peace, Anne Quain – veterinary ethicist, Karen Atkins -Palliative and Spiritual Care Practitioner
My book will be back from the publishers in Autumn 2026 and will sell for $29.95 yet I have decided to offer it for sale at a pre-release price of $19.95 plus $5.00 postage worldwide.
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